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About sharing image copyrightThinkstock Decades ago when gay people faced ostracism and the threat of prosecution in the UK and other Western nations, many chose to marry and disguise their sexuality. But even with increased tolerance now some choose to take the same path. Nick, who is in his 50s, has been married to his wife for 30 years.

He is also gay. He thinks his wife had suspicions about his sexuality for years, but things came to a head when he had an affair with a man.

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She's my best friend really above all else, so we've decided we would like to remain together as best friends," he says. Nick isn't his real name - many of the couple's friends and family don't know he's gay and he wants to remain anonymous to protect his wife. From the beginning, there was unhappiness in the marriage, with doubts about whether they had made the right decision.

He'd always felt uncertain about his sexual orientation and this troubled him more and more as he got older.

Like many men in his situation, Nick, a nurse, found himself living a double life. On the surface he was a happily married man, but he was also using gay pornography. He'd get drunk with a gay friend and, he says, "events took their course".

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His wife was angry and upset when she found out about six years ago, and Nick knew there was no point denying the truth any sexually frustrated chat buddy. She told him she was disappointed that he hadn't been able to trust her enough to be honest with her, and that if she had known she would have accepted it. The couple chose sexuaply stay together not for the sake of children - they don't have any - but because of their feelings for each other.

Nick has promised his wife that he will never again have sex or a relationship with a man - he says he secually it to her.

But can he stick to that promise? He says: "I'm hoping so, it's my intention to. It didn't feel like a choice in the past, it felt like it was enforced on me.

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I'm now making that choice that I would like to, in a sense, remain celibate. Men travel nuddy around the country to attend meetings.

Group founder John says most of buedy men are older - they married women in the s and 80s when society was more hostile to gay people. Now society is more tolerant, they are more comfortable with coming out as gay.

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But why did they get sezually in the first place? Nick says many men who contact the website say they did so to try to "sort themselves out". Andy, 56, a student, adds: "At times you think you're going through a phase and as you've once or twice heard people say, 'You find the right woman and she'll turn you and you'll be a real man. He knew his sexuality was ambiguous but he budy have the vocabulary to define it.

Truthfully, I thought a gay man lived in London. Which people laugh at and it is funny now, it's really strange but I had this kind of naivety.

Well, I didn't feel like camp or effeminate so I couldn't be gay, could I? John is now married to a man who has been his partner for 23 years, but says he still finds parts of his life raw and upsetting. Andy is divorcing his wife after 30 years and four children - she has a new partner.

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He says: "I still love her, I'm very close to her, in fact we describe each other as best friends - which may sound odd, but when we've got children together…" Some remain married because of the expectations of friends and family, or because they have children and don't want to break up a family. John says the men are often quite desperate and struggling to cope with no support - many are suffering from quite severe depression.

Because that's part of the problem, because we're a myth, we don't exist. We don't exist in [the] straight world. So we seem invisible.

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